Homeschooler Socialization and Public Speaking

As a homeschooler one of the most common (read annoying) things you are asked is "Aren't you worried about socialization?"  Short answer: No.

I think homeschooling can provide the most real form of social integration as well as unique opportunities.  If my child were in school for 3rd grade she would only be dealing with other 3rd graders on a social level.  I find that to be a very narrow social category.  As a homeschooler it is necessary for her to interact with children of all ages, races, religions, and abilities.  She has to deal with adults, business people, sales people, instructors and more.  When she is at Target and wants to find something, she asks the associate not mom.  Homeschooling often requires the ability to hold a conversation with an adult the same as a 3rd grader.  It is these experiences that help to build a comfortable and natural confidence which is core to her "social" abilities.  Sitting in a classroom setting for 7+ hours with children of very similar age isn't what bears socialization. 

The mission of public schooling is not socialization but according to congress it is "assuring access to equal educational opportunity for every individual".  I even remember a teacher telling my son in 2nd grade "you don't come to school to socialize you come to learn." - wait...what?  Socialization, like education, happens everywhere. 

Standing tall speaking with confidence :)

 

C.J. spoke on Scout Sunday in February about being a Boy Scout.  His small speech really was awesome!  I was sooooo nervous for him.  I knew he was a little nervous too but as he spoke to over 600 people he spoke with a strong confidence in his voice and demeanor.  He was a professional speaking in front of a large crowd FOR THE FIRST TIME!  Part of this is his natural personality and another part is the confidence building that homeschool has provided him.

Some basic keys for confident speaking are:

1. Eye Contact
2. Voice Projection
3. Inflection
4. Gestures / Body Language

There are a lot of great books out there to help build on the strengths your child already has.  Here is one we have used but this also looks great!  Think about including public speaking and oral presentation into your yearly school schedule.